i realised it is true that when we love someone, our feelings go together with them. ie when they feel sad, we feel sad. and when they are joyous, we will be joyous. i guess that's good (for when that happens, joy is doubled and sadness halved), but we must always remember that as friends who love them, we should also stay logical and lookout for them. this is so that our friends, who are overwhelmed with emotions and not fully able to think rationally, can have a clearer perspective on things and make better decisions.

and today i also discovered that i always seem to be making mistakes in my spending. ie i always spend money on things that eventually turn out to be useless. the major financial faux pas-es that i have made so far amount up to $800. and this excludes all the minor ones (ie unused consumer items etc) and the ones which i forgot about.
and yes i made another (not so minor) financial faux pas today. its so embarrassing that i dun even wanna talk about it. so there.
ok so i guess i shldnt go be a trader. skarlie my company goes bankrupt becuz of me. heh.

and i also found out that ya, its true that sometimes some people do things that juz get on your nerves. you'll wonder why, do they mean to hurt you or izzit juz their character to do those things. i mean i know its best to talk things out and solve misunderstandings if any, but sometimes it happens so often that you'll juz be tired of asking why all the time. mebbe its best not to care?